I'm currently taking a break from studying for my prelim
exam I have to take this Monday for one
of my majors. Like I need to study and summarize three books again. Hell right?
Well anyway, I would like to share you some thought to ponder as many of us here
have been experiencing this kind of problem.
We've all had our share of haters like what most people call
them. Through the internet, its easier for people to share their thoughts about
a certain topic or about a certain person. Most especially when formspring and ask.fm was made and people could freely
express their thoughts about you anonymously and made it easier for people to
bash you and say all these mean things about you. I've experienced this A LOT of
times already. Like maybe in every 10 questions I get, there's 1 mean
"question" or statement. I sometimes even get comments about how I
shouldn't blog anymore because I don't even dress well. And even if I don't
rant about it or share it through twitter or facebook, I get hurt by these and
there are times when I even start to doubt myself and what I love doing. I even
used to cry about it because I'm naturally sensitive when it comes to opinions
of other people about me. I think we all are one way or the other
right? But what I've learned for the past something months that I've been
blogging is that these kinds of
opinions never go away. There
will always be negative opinions about you because you can never please
everybody. Like your way of dressing may not be appealing to some people or the
way you talk may not be appealing to some people and thats okay because its
normal. We all have different preferences. There are also other kinds of
opinion from people who just want to bring you down with no reason whatsoever.
They'll say you're ugly, that you have big lips, that you’re so Negra, that you
don't dress well at all, that you just try hard etc. And these kinds of useless
comments? as much as easier said than done, just ignore them. Just reach out to
a loved one which I always do because its their opinions who matter anyway.
With these kinds of comments, you should just keep your head up high and don't
fight back. Just let them be because they'll eventually get tired of going
through your pictures to look for a tiny mistake that you've made or a small
flaw about you that the person wants to be magnified. Like my mom had always
said, be the bigger person. Keep your poise and just be your awesome self
:)
♥♥♥
sasa
Don't fret, I love how you dress yourself :) Stay strong Sasa!
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Thanks Verna! I will. Hehe =)
DeleteDont mind those people who said a negative comments about you! God created all of us as a beautiful in a diffrent way! Thumbs up;) -J
ReplyDeleteYeah right! Thanks who ever you are =)
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